Gay marriage planning

Could you share examples of how you support LGBTQ+ couples and confirm your approach to pronouns and gender-neutral language across your process? You can also decide whether to keep things traditional with dresses or tuxedos, or make the attire your own. Start planning any cultural or identity-based rituals so you can source the right elements.

When your vision starts to feel clear, jot down three words that capture it. For example, you could have guests read poetry or a blessing.

You can keep things traditional with dresses or tuxedos, or make them your own.

If you don't plan on keeping your wedding clothes and would like to save some money, you can opt to rent your attire.

The age-old custom of the bride's parents paying for the wedding is evolving with the times, so don't worry if you're unsure of who is going to foot the bill.

If you want to invent a ritual no one has seen before, do it. Think through sound, lighting, and guest flow, then bring in pros who know how to transform a blank canvas.

Step Seven: Create an Inclusive Guest Experience

A welcoming guest experience is universal. Look at the room you built. You'll also need to think about the finances and who will pay for the wedding.

Characteristics	Values
Ceremony	The ceremony can be traditional or non-traditional, depending on the couple's preference.
Reception	The reception can be tailored to the couple's interests and personalities.
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