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3. It’s not about controlling the submissive’s every move but about creating a framework in which the submissive can flourish within the boundaries they both agree upon. They add that extra oomph to your scenes, taking the experience from middle-of-the-road to mind-blowing.

· Safety Equipment and Essentials: Keep your play sessions fun and risk-free with essentials like safety scissors (for quick release from ropes or tapes), a first-aid kit, and a bottle of water for hydration.

What's more, by stating your own preferences, you'll increase your chances of being approached by a Dom looking for a sub like you. They should feel free to express any discomfort or boundaries. Equally, being upfront about what you like can help you attract a good match. Discuss the issue calmly, listen to your sub's perspective, and work together to find a resolution.

Instead, it means you're now responsible for your sub. What does your sub expect from you? Also, a "no" means full stop.

· Communication: If consent is the skeleton, communication is the lifeblood of your relationship. Open, honest communication is key. Yet, the Dominant, overwhelmed by societal conditioning, pushes the keys back and insists the submissive tell them where to go, afraid of being perceived as overbearing.

It is a consensual, desired role that, when approached with mutual respect and understanding, creates space for growth, connection, and fulfillment for both parties. Embracing one’s role as a Dominant is not about perpetuating harmful stereotypes but about understanding the responsibility and privilege that comes with consensual power exchange, especially when it has been willingly handed over.

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You could go out tonight and find a willing Dom, but who's to say whether you'd be compatible. As long as you and your partner both consent to it, there's nothing to be guilty about. You need to do some research, weigh up your options and make sure you're comfortable with any steps you take.

What are your expectations in return?