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What will it mean to you both for one of you to ask for the other’s parents’ blessing and pop the question “on bended knee?”

Does one of you want to do the asking? Debt is not a lifestyle! Do you have people willing to help in the areas where you’re less than expert or don’t have a trusted partner?

How much time do you have to plan your wedding?

Determining your budget

Discuss in advance a few ground rules surrounding how much you’re willing to spend, and the type of wedding you would like to host. Is an electronic version viable?

On what are you each willing to compromise or create a new idea around where your visions differ?

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Is it worth the money for you to have dedicated photography (and “rehearse” your potential wedding photographer) and announce your engagement along with a photo? From finding the perfect venue to choosing the right vendors, there are many decisions to make. When deciding about a theme for your wedding, consider your favorite colors, personal or decorating style, activity, destination, historical era or even fantasy!

Your wedding should be a reflection of your personalities and lifestyle, without the burden of incurring debt.

Do you make an occasion of the announcement and invite your friends and family to a cocktail party?

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Look at other couples’ sites to assess what information they included, what look they opted for (make sure your site relates to your concept!) and what platform they used (Wedding Wire, Squarespace).

From Canada to Europe, Mexico to the Caribbean and Latin America, these photos will provide you with plenty of ideas and inspiration for your own LGBT wedding.

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Getting aligned

How much do you truly understand each other’s vision and means for your wedding?

How will you hold each other accountable to your shared vision and agreed to budget for your wedding?

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7. Price-points, types of venues, even home stays? No matter where you choose to get married, these 72 photos will help you create a beautiful and meaningful ceremony that celebrates your love and commitment.

Based on your answers above, what value will having a wedding planner bring you? There’s an extra layer of celebration at queer weddings—a fierce kind of joy born from struggle, resilience, and finally, recognition.

This post is dedicated to every couple who invited me into their world, and to the generations who fought for the right to love freely and visibly.

And with the help of experienced wedding vendors, you can create a day that reflects your individual style and personalities.

Assemble your lists independently and share with each other why you’ve included the guests you have.